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Wednesday, January 5, 2011

dude...

seriously, the evil i've experienced today was unbelievable. and i mean that in the most serious way i could ever put something.

and it came as sort of a shock bc it was coming from erna, who i've been friends with since we were 15. it was crazyyyy. so here's this girls' deal:
  • she's got majorly deep issues to the point our own general manager said so.
  • (here's the kicker) her m.o.? if you dont do what she wants you to do for her, she'll get extremely bitchy with you. you let her know whats up and that you're not going to sit there and be nice to her after she's been ugly with you bc of what she feels you shouldve done for her, she's going cleeeeean the f**k off.


& that's what happened today. long story short, i didnt check on her after her getting her wisdom teeth pulled and she feels like i shouldve. when since new years eve , she'd been a bitch to me bc i hadnt invited her and this other girl with me to this couples house that my fam got invited to. i didnt invite them bc i do not even know those people like that, so that would be kinda rude of me to just bring 2 people with me over there and shes mad bc i wasnt gonna be inconsiderate for her. and i just can't believe after that she ACTUALLY EXPECTED me to be nice and check up on her. psh. i actually told her "where are you from?! how do you expect me to be nice to you after you were a complete bitch to me? im sorry but that's not how that works." she told me "fuck you then, go suck a dick." then walked away. that's what i had to deal with. and you think i wanna be her friend? pshhh, no wayyyy, jose. i'll take lone ranger for 500 pleeeaseeeee!


after that it was war. like 3 separate confrontations at work today. totally unnecessary, i can't believe things went down the way that they did. i mean, i knew our friendship would eventually end if she didn't mature anytime soon, but i honestly did not expect such an ugly ending. im glad she's out of my life with all her dramatics, passive-aggressiveness, and negativity; but this ending had so much hate coming from her end, it was unreal. like i've never had ANYONE have so much hate & spite in their face & voice. and she's constantly threatening me too. to slander my name. so immature. and on the last confrontation today, i was like "im not even trying to go there with you! at this point, allll bs aside, im just trying to make it as to where we wont be rolling our eyes at each other when we work together..."


she then puts her earphones in, rolls her eyes, tells me "fuck you" again and flicks me off and starts pretending like she's jamming to her music. crazy much? yeah. im shocked and stressed by all the drama with the situation, but im still glad that this is it for her being in my life. no more drama. Thank you God :) now i just have to get over this hump and leave it all in Gods' hands. part of her 'threats' to me was that "im not gonna like what she's got for my bitchass on saturday" when we exchange the last of the belongings we have for each other.


im just gonna pray on it like there's no tomorrow, you know? and i MUST MUST MUST apoligize for how negative/dreary my posts have been. i had a blog years ago & it wasn't nearly as "always bad day" venting as this one is, but ive just been having quite a few bad days lately and ive been lacking blogging about the good stuff & days God's been sending my way and TRUST: you'll be hearing much more about those days, promise :)


like this regular thats got this pretty high position at this construction company, might be able to get me a job at one of his sites as a receptionist!! i just have to give him my resume tomorrow!! :))) wish me luck! & he said that even if he's not able to get me a job, he knows a lot of other people and will circulate my resume, cool huh? lets see how that one plays out ;)


oh and before all the "erna drama", i was having a banging day :) i was training thos girl ashley that i already know through a mutual friend and we had some nice conversation with a side of actual training lol! it was nice working with her, its real rare these days to meet a down to earth girl, it was just nice to talk with one.


then my sworn enemy (i dont know when) but tried to add my husband on facebook, ha. then i messaged her maturely about it, basically saying that "hey, female to female on a honest level, you wouldnt like it if i tried to add ur boyfriend on facebook, so dont try and add my HUSBAND. thats just inappropriate." then just wrapped it up. picture why like an hour later, she tried adding ME on facebook? jtfo at these girls out here these days. ha. pshhh. whatever. man today, i promised myself that no more girls in my life except the ones in my family & my 3 best friends back home. like for realllll, ha. im so tired of the scandalous females they got out here now a days. its really a shame. i mean, im not the most innocent girl ever, ive had my catty moments but nothing like my sworn enemy, erna, and countless other girls i thought were my friends have pulled. im keeping it exclusive. just my God, my family, my husband, & 3 bff's. well, i'll blog ya tomorrow! night!

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